God is pure love, and all love is God. At the end of your life you go home to God. You and God review your life and the choices you made. He loves us all; but we make a choice whether to accept him and love him in return. “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life” (John 3:16).

Through the years, man’s hunger for power and control has denied people many authentic teaching. Some great teachers’ words and experiences have been re-interpreted to benefit earthly interests. This has led to power struggles among men and created various religions. These men produced interpretations of religious writings documented by the great teachers to serve their own personal goals. As we mature in life, many choose an interpretation that helps the individual understand God and God’s love. When you combine verses 3 and 77 from the Gospel of Thomas with verse 17:21 from the Gospel of Luke, Christ Jesus said:

Understand that God is everywhere at all times, not just in your place of worship. You can call upon Him anytime and call upon Him whenever you need Him. When living your life, know this to be true and much comfort will come to your soul. Our society is evolving with more technology taking root and replacing human communication. When technology replaces the human connection, a person can lose focus on how to communicate and connect with others and God. The energy transferred from person to person creates the feeling of fluid emotions that has the potential to lead you to love. We all need love from one another. This is the purpose of life: to grow, give, and experience love.

God is our creator. No person or thing is separate from God. We are never alone. God is within us. If we accept this, we can find the answers to all of our questions by looking within our hearts and listening to our instincts. We must observe the actions of others and listen to the words they say. The answer will come by using our powers of observation combined with the inner voice of reason or conscience. Listen carefully and trust it—do not second-guess yourself. If you arrive at this level of understanding, no experience is an obstacle; because life is a series of moments experienced. Relationships are about love and love connects one to God. Consciously create thoughts that harvest love. Being “in love” is how it feels to be with God.

If you have accepted God into your heart, passing on is not a scary journey but rather a peaceful and blissful entrance in to the home of God. Your spirit leaves your body and a feeling of great peace and love engulfs you. Death is nothing to fear. In any fearful situation, once you allow yourself to be open to feeling the fear and confront the fear, you will experience peace—even at passing. On the other side of fear is peace. Know this and you will not feel fear. When a person nears death, they meet God and feel His love. When people experience this path, they learn through the transition that in death, there is nothing to fear. It is not dark and scary but rather it is a blue sky with bright stars. The energy is of bliss, togetherness, peace and unconditional love. In First John 4:18, God says, “there is no fear in love. But, perfect love drives out fear.”

God is in us and by our side – always. With my mission, God goes before me, reviews all that I do and will help us on this journey to create change – God’s way.

Family is the first priority and the foundation of our society. People who do not appreciate their family travel a path of loneliness and isolation. Living a happy life includes being part of a family—biological or non-biological. A family creates balance and love in each individual’s life.

Every family has a different chemistry and dynamic. The family traditions, child rearing, personalities, beliefs and the parents’ professions all affect each family member’s attitude and perspective on life. These influences shape children’s perception of who they are, and form the roots of their character. Not until they leave the family do they discover other perspectives of the world. Through maturation, education, and participation in extended circles of family and friends, they learn other patterns of behavior. However, the initial impact of the family environment is the most significant force in shaping lives.

We all, at some point in our lives, have felt emotional pain, and in some cases physical pain from our families, leaving us disappointed, disillusioned, confused and feeling inferior and rejected. I know some of you have gone through more than your share of unfair and horrible situations. What I will teach you is how to stop getting down on yourself and losing your sense of value and self- love. I will teach you how to move past the situations and move into an attitude of acceptance of the situation, pain, and disappointment, and feel self-empowerment. I will give you instruction, skills and guidance on how to take action to stop sinking to the deep depths of depression, self-pity or anger. I will teach you to understand your individuality apart from your family, and understand that there is nothing wrong with you – but rather how to BE YOU, by dealing with your situation head on so you can begin living the life of your dreams.

At the end of your days, I know the only thing that matters is your meeting with the ONE, our Father God. Your goal is to be the best YOU despite all family circumstances. The sooner you start dealing with the pain created in your family, the sooner you will heal, start living with confidence, and feel the peace that’s necessary to embrace more love in your life. Get started today!

Relationships are all about emotions. Relationships all have a purpose: to learn from them daily. Relationships need to be respected and treasured, as they are the vehicle through which our Father God teaches us daily. Through relationships, we can identify what we need to learn, work on, and practice in order to evolve spiritually to eventually become ONE with our Father God. Yes, all relationships start, grow, and plateau and continually evolve. We can allow love to grow or not. Emotions are fluid so your relationships are always changing and evolving. Relationships are where you learn to build trust and respect one another. Relationships become strained when you are not happy with yourself, and are searching outside yourself for happiness. When this occurs, you need to focus on identifying your emotions and feelings, and take care of yourself. That includes talking to your partner. The silent treatment is the worst form of relationship abuse. We all have to learn how to manage and keep our emotions in perspective. The most important reason to learn to manage your emotions is to keep your relationships respectful and healthy. Manage your emotions daily by being aware of your thoughts. A thought produces a feeling, and then produces an action. To understand yourself, keep your thoughts in a respectful and peaceful place. People go through a day completing routine job duties and life tasks with no feelings. Many do not pay much attention to their daily thoughts. If we do not feel, dream, or think big, we simply achieve our daily tasks—basic human responsibilities. If you pay attention to your thoughts and feelings, when you find you are experiencing negative emotions, acknowledge them and simply change your negative thought to a positive, more pleasant one. This will then change your feelings and emotions. It sounds simple because it really is. Just practice! And I mean practice! You will see your life turn around to become much more fun, enjoyable, and filled with love.

The first step to learning the all-important skill of managing your emotions is getting to know yourself by understanding your mind and thoughts. This will help you to determine what you need in your life, what boundaries you need to set, what opportunities you need to create, and a realistic way to live your life that brings you love, hope, and happiness in all relationships. I will provide you guidance, instructions and tasks to help you develop healthy, loving and rewarding relationships.

Developing a wonderful, fulfilling, and healthy relationship that culminates in marriage is a natural progression. That means that while in the relationship, a couple has a healthy and comfortable understanding of each other’s career goals, expectations, sexual needs and desires, spiritual beliefs, and family goal’s and ambitions. The couple understands each other’s differences, respects each other’s beliefs, as well as the path that has influenced these beliefs. Each has the ability to solve problems together, is accepting of each other’s communication style, has the ability to compromise, understands mutual submission, shares child-rearing skills, and most of all, has mutual respect and love for one another. When this type of loving committed relationship is the goal, then marriage naturally follows. All these aspects of a relationship need to be solid, shared equally, and respected by both before marriage. This is the basis of a healthy, long-term, loving relationship.

Communication, compromise and commitment to the marriage are essential ingredients for a successful long-term union. It is guaranteed that you will get on each other’s nerves, become annoyed, feel disappointed, and at times, angry. Regardless of the situation, all married couples must communicate the concern and commit to determining a resolution to the situation through compromise, or agreeing to disagree. Then, let the situation go. Not letting go only builds more resentment and creates a continual unnecessary drama. It is easy to start a fight, but it’s hard to end a fight without feeling offended and without saying things that you know will hurt your partner. Fights are hard to let go; but to keep peace and feel love, forgive and embrace each other and let it go. We are human. We will make mistakes with the one we love. However, I know that God’s love will never fail you. And, love never fails. Anything done or said with love, will never fail. For a committed love to withstand the test of time, you must practice these words: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7. How do you achieve this? Communicate, compromise, commit, and then let go. Have faith, hope, and most importantly – love!

Bringing a new life into the world is both a huge responsibility and an enormous joy! When people embark on a journey of creating life and conceive, they should feel blessed and honored. Some take conception for granted while others wish they did not have to endure the longing, enormous stress, disappointment and grief of infertility issues. Science has advanced to the point that many couples have been able to conceive with new technologies. It is a wonderful time for couples today.

Children are a huge responsibility and take a lot of energy and commitment. They are helpless little human beings that only understand love. They are God’s blessing. Children’s experiences, moment to moment, file in their minds and become the framework of their attitudes and beliefs about the world and people. The moment-to-moment experiences you have with your child form your child’s index of worldly experiences. Life, for all of us, is a series of moments that result from the choices we make. For a child, these moments depend on the parent(s) choices. It would be best for you to be at a place in your life where you have made good choices so that your child has a good role model, and the opportunity to know and experience the best aspects of life. There should be no conflict or unresolved relationship issues between the couple.

Before conceiving a child, both potential parents should discuss their family environments—what their parents did that benefited them and what was detrimental, what hurt or caused emotional damage. It is important to be truthful and honest with each other. Address any negative aspects so that the child will not have to relive the adverse experiences that you may have already faced. For example, people can either become better parents with their own children, or repeat the same damaging behaviors that their parents inflicted on them. This is unfortunate but true. Therefore, it is imperative that both adults discuss their family environments prior to the commencement of the marriage agreement, and before they bring a child into the world. God for all persons: “Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him: for God’s temple is sacred, and you are that temple.” 1 Corinthians 3:16-17. I tell you the truth. All must understand when your day comes and you meet with God and have “your conversation”, there is no hiding any truths of your words and actions towards any of God’s children –all of us. At that moment, you will experience the pain you inflicted on another…what is termed “hell.” I speak the truth and know this to be true: Be sure all is in accordance with God’s law on earth before you pass on.

Children are just that–children. They are little human beings that learn and grow with time. Parents teach them how to behave and mature. Parents dictate what behaviors the children learn to be appropriate or inappropriate. As adults, if you are not defining right from wrong from the time your child begins talking, then you are not teaching your child how to make the correct choices in life. Children are emotionally fragile. Children are impressionable. Just as you recall how your parents treated you, your child will one day be assessing your parental skills and behaviors. It is a great feeling when you see your child happy, emotionally stable, confident, strong, and utilizing the tools and skills, you have taught them to have a balanced and happy life. A child with a positive disposition develops into an emotionally stable, happy, confident and responsible adult. Teaching a child proper language, manners, communication, and behaviors makes for excellent responsible teens and future leaders. This training is a wonderful experience and leads to tremendous happiness and success in their lives. Children become aware of personal boundaries and are conscious of the boundaries of others. Once a child is equipped with proper knowledge and skills, their emotional development, respect towards others, and personal identity will develop and improve. Each parent’s goal is to equip their child with the “know how” to leave the nest and fly on their own. This is how life works and what being a parent is about. It is a hard, fun, challenging, and joyful life experience. Your journey can bring you much happiness and fulfillment, or much sadness and grief. It is your choice, and one hundred percent your responsibility. You are the adult.

The healthier you are, the happier you will be. Without your health, you limit what you can achieve in your life. Really, when it comes down to it, the only person that can take care of your health is you. That means that you have primary responsibility for your own health. Health is both physical and mental. Each plays a significant role in your accomplishments and your ability to develop and maintain relationships with your lover, family, friends, and work associates.

In today’s society, fast food is a part of our lives. With the rising cost of living and heavier work demands, it is simply easier to grab fast food or go to a restaurant. Sure beats the time and energy that a person has to put into cooking a meal, especially if you are single. However, you must consider the downside. During the week, try to plan the majority of meals to be at home; and, if you do go out to eat, the restaurants you choose should vary in cuisine. Try to eat only half the huge restaurant portions served and save the rest to eat at home another day. Restaurants provide large, sodium-rich portions. Moreover, if you eat out every day, you will absolutely put on extra weight—a lot of it! Be conscious of the portion sizes you are eating for each meal. Make portion control a habit even at home. If possible, try to avoid, or keep to a bare minimum, deep-fat fried foods and oily, cream-based meals. These foods simply go straight to hips, thighs, and abdominal areas. If you are even fifteen pounds overweight, you must pay closer attention to what you eat. More importantly, drink more water and exercise a minimum of three times per week for at least thirty minutes. Your workout must include cardio to increase your heartbeat.

There is no excuse for being overweight, unless of course, a doctor has diagnosed you with a medical condition. A majority of adults are overweight simply because they are eating too much of the wrong foods. They become overweight, or even obese, because they have stopped caring about what they look like. In most cases, as they continue to put on weight, it becomes everyone else’s problem, not theirs– which is entirely unfair to those who love them. Therefore, every member of the family needs to work on a solution to lose weight so you do not have to live with the consequences of a life of not taking care of your health. The only medically proven, safe weight loss program out there today is WeightNot. Thousands have lost 50 and even 100 pounds safely and permanently. WeightNot educates all its clients about food and how to feed yourself and your family. WeightNot is a 97- day program whereby you safely lose fat rapidly. Now that WeightNot exists, there is no reason for any man, woman, or child to be obese. All Americans need to do this program so that we can begin to create the change in our world today. Go to WeightNot.com and get started today. I will be ensuring that Americans stop this obesity epidemic by discussing food choices for each show. Being fat and not doing anything about it, is a slow suicide. Being fat is not acceptable now that WeightNot has developed a natural weight loss system. I am so grateful to our Father God for providing all Americans and people around the world a cure for this epidemic. I did the program, and I have never felt better. You too can experience the happiness and joy that comes from taking care of your health.

My goodness, does it always have to end up about money? People lie, betray, con, manipulate, and kill for money. Why do so many people believe that the more money you have, the happier you become? Yes, it is true we need money—some need more than others do. However, learn to be comfortable with the amount you earn for your labor. Whatever you do for a living, when you do what you love, enough money will follow. If you are unhappy with your job, make an effort to discover what it is that you love to do, and simply do it. Thoughts become realities; so, articulate your thoughts by communicating your ambitions so you can be living your dreams. This is the law of the universe.

I have worked for large corporations and have been an entrepreneur/employer for over 15 years now. One of the major problems I see in the work place that contribute to people not getting promoted,–or getting terminated– is not only the lack of performance, but moreover of the poor choices of gossiping, fault-finding in other staff, and bad mouthing their boss. So many employees are negative, critical and judgmental toward their boss most of the time, just because they are the boss. So many employees live with the delusion that gossip will not eventually get back to their boss. I am here to tell you, all gossip gets back to your boss, even after you leave that place of employment. I will also tell you that no boss promotes these types of people, and our Father God does not reward these people either. People need to understand that all this condemning, back-biting, and gossipy behaviors do not go unnoticed by your employer and our Father God.

If you have a problem with someone at work, go to them face-to-face, not behind their back. Discuss the situation and try to come to a mutual resolution. As in any relationship, you may not agree with everything and there may be things you don’t understand, but don’t be a gossip. That is only perceived as stirring up trouble. If you’re not behind your employer and the company, you need to go find another job. You will be much happier, respected, promoted, and experience financial abundance when you support your colleagues and the organization that provide you a paycheck.

Once living your dream, do it with loyalty, honesty, passion, and integrity. The career journey is the most rewarding—not the money. The people you work with and the challenges along the way will end up creating the moments and memories you share, learn from, and treasure. No matter the career or skill you have chosen, this is the bottom line truth. When you achieve your goal and dream, that moment—that one triumphant moment—is exhilarating. It will be a cherished moment, but again, it is only one moment out of many in your life. Your journey is a series of moments strung together, so seize that final, awaited moment. When it comes, relish and bask in it, jump up and down, shout yahoo, smile, thank your family, friends, colleagues, employer and God. You deserve that moment!

Once you achieve wealth, it is important to give back. Tithing is important to the soul. If you give to helping me Create Change, you will be helping me touch millions of lives by providing them instruction, guidance and strengthening.

These past few years, we have witnessed what is going on in our government in the United States of America, and with leaders of other countries. We cannot expect our government and leaders to create the change that we need in our hearts and minds. Therefore, let’s collectively, as people of God, continue to support our government and leaders, but put our daily efforts in to creating change for ourselves, children, families, and future generations to come.

Our Father God says of my mission: “Do not be terrified; do not be afraid of them. The Lord your God, who is going before you, will fight for you, as he did for you in Egypt, before your very eyes, and in the desert. There you saw how the Lord your God carried you, as a father carries his son, all the way, you went until you reached this place.” Deuteronomy 1:29-31

“The Lord will grant that the enemies who rise up against you will be defeated before you. They will come at you from one direction but flee from you in seven” Deuteronomy 28:7

We have now started our journey – together as ONE!